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I would like every that has ever received any of my advice to leave a comment below. I would also like everyone that has read The Magic Of Making Up by TW Jackson to leave comments. Thanks for all the comments and for showing how much i have been able to help you
Thomas, Thank you very much for all your videos. I am in the no contact period for about a week. TW Jackson system really helped me with my relationship. we got back together a couple of weeks ago but we are still worken on it
Thomas, thank you so much for all your help. When the breakup happened I was in shock and didnt know what to do. Your emails and video are straight forward, sympathetic and tell me just what I need to hear. Im just starting the no contact and you and the magic of making up keep me focused. However it turns out, I cant thank you enough
Your welcome Shelly.
I know that if you keep following my advice and the magic of making up advice you will continue to see great results. Make sure to check your email inbox every day because i will continue to send you reports, videos, and free guides. Good Luck!
I was talking to my ex’s best friend today, she said that my ex was wondering about me…because of the “Second Chance Letter” It did exactly what it was supposed to do! I couldn’t help but smile, because now I see how things that the magic of making up has shown me are starting to work!
I have only one thing to say: THANK YOU for all your help and your support, you are greaaaat!!! Thank you so much man!! You helped me through one of the most difficult times i ever had
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Tanks for your help I will test all your advices. It really works.
Hi Thomas,
Your advice was really helpful. I have found it interesting in developing myself after my split with my ex. Although my ex and I are not back together I still appreciate all the help you have given me.
Thanks for replying to my email the other day answering my question about the magic of making up. love your support thomas
Thanks Thomas, I liked all your videos. Your advice makes so much sense to me. Been following the magic of making up for about 2 months and i am glad i did. im goen on my 2 date with my ex. Thanks thomas
Your advice is Excellent, Thomas!
Thank you for everything
Thank you for the advice. It makes perfect sense. wish i would of found you and the magic of making up right after the break up started.
I am going to keep everything in mind that you recommended and be stronger about how i approach this from now on. It is good to know other people are going through similar things. I will keep you posted on the progress!
After I bought “The Magic Of Making Up” by T.W. Jackson, I also signed up for Thomas Trumen’s news letters. So everyday not only do I get help and advice from T.W. Jackson, but Thomas as well.
I highly recommend that if your are serious about getting your ex back, then you NEED these guys! Seriously! I’m currently following the system, I gave my ex the “Second Chance Letter” the other day, and on that very same day I broke the pattern. So, I accomplished two major parts in one day. But this is a system that will take time and work, along with positive effort.
I’m easily discouraged because my ex is already in another relationship, but for every video and newsletter I get from Thomas and T.W. Jackson, I feel refreshed and filled with hope! I thank them both for what they have done so far! And I honestly hope that my ex will one day be in my arms again. And all thanks will go to T.W. Jackson and Thomas Trumen, for giving us hope, and actual help with our relationships!
Good Job Casey!
I see that you almost have your ex back Casey!
Just keep following The Magic Of Making Up. The next thing you have to do is take your ex out on 3 outings for no longer then 30 minutes to keep their curiosity peeked. If you cut the outing off at the very climax your ex will want to continue the outing another day.
People love climaxes, lol
…So when you cut off your outing at the climax your ex will want to have another one!
Who wouldnt want another climax after the first one if the first one made them happy?
Then after you have developed a NEW FOUNDATION for you future relationship with the outings do the next thing TW Jackson says in The Magic Of Making Up. Just make sure when you do the EMOTIONALLY CHARGED DATES after the 3 outings you do what i told you about STACKING the DATES with your ex.
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Stacking all the emotionally charged dates will make the dates with your ex 100x’s better!
One more thing, make sure that you use THE INSTANT RECONNECT TECHNIQUE that TW Jackson talks about in The Magic Of Making Up. When you are in the middle of STACKING the dates with your ex use this technique at the CLIMAX of the date.
Then when your ex gets sexual with you after you apply this technique you know you are only a few dates away to making your ex commit to you again.
Look forward to your next update Casey!
Keep following The Magic Of Making up and i cant wait for your success story.
Sincerely, Thomas Trumen
Thomas,
Thanks man your advice is helping me stay sane and keeping me focused. would be lost with out you.
The Magic of Making up is a wonderful book. Just reading it for the first time made me feel more relaxed.
Thomas, thank you so much for all of your emails and tips! They’re really helpful.
I agree with the post by Rachel, about wishing that I found you and the book before the breakup.
just want to say that this guy is the shit! and knows what he’s talking about. suscribe and he’ll help you with out a doubt
These two guys are great! They are wonderful coaches for getting through, and hopefully, getting back an ex after a break-up. The videos that Thomas sends are perfect! They give all the additional info and coaching that I needed after reading The Magic of Making Up.
Thanks Thomas!!
Thank you Thomas. Your videos really help. Whenever I’m depressed, I watch your videos. The Magic of Making up is also so awesome. Everyone who really wants their ex back should own that book.
I really neeed a copy of this book… My husband left me with a toddler and 6 months pregnant… I am now a single mum and can’t afford to purchase this. Can u tell me if I can download for free?
Hi Amy
I am sorry, you can not download The Magic Of Making Up for free anywhere online and it is not available in stores. If you find someone giving away this POWERFUL system away for free you need to report them to TW Jackson before he finds out, reports them to the police, gets a lawyer, and sues them for $100,000!
As you can see from the comments above The Magic Of Making Up system is AMAZING and It works!
TW Jacksons techniques are very powerful and are only available to thoughs that are willing to INVEST in their relationship skills and a 2nd chance with the one they love. Since TW Jackson decided to share his “MAGIC FORMULA” that took him
20 years to create
with the public, The Magic Of Making Up has saved over 60,000 relationships in over 50 country’s in only the past couple years. Not only that but TW Jackson has had no complaints and has a 100% customer satisfaction rate, even the few people that asked for a refund were happy because they were also provided with a great service.
…And since i am about to get married i can now say “with a smile on my face” that i am one of TW Jacksons testimonials out of the 60,000 + testimonials TW Jackson has because of The Magic Of Making Up.
I completely understand your situation…There is still Hope!
Until you are able to afford The Magic Of Making Up system, sign up and read my FREE guide to get started on the right path to get your ex back. After you sign up i will send you a “PRIVATE INVITATION” to work with me and TW Jackson one one one if there are any spots available.
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Thomas, Thomas
hello there…
great job…Also huge thanks to TW for writing this book 
.
Huge thanks for such a great support, I mean you just being there when someone needs a bit of advice is amazing
Every advice was very helpfull, and I thank you, you are great support.
Best wishes and lots of love
Hi Thomas,
Just want to say your awsome,,, I am getting alot of advice!1 The book is very helpful, and i get a kick out of your videos… Some are sooo funny{ your comments} ;o) Thank You again and hope to hear from ya!!;o) ;o)
This stuff does work but you have to follow the rules and understand that everbodys situation is different. So be wise how you use the magic of making up. Other than that its a great system and i recommend it to any one. Thanks Thomas!
Thomas – Thank you for all your help! You’re keeping me strong! You’re a great help and a huge support.
Great stuff. Love ain’t always easy, or patient and kind! But patience can pay off, and this info is great if you really want a shot at getting him/her back. Thanks man.
Hey Thomas. Is there some way I could contact you through email? I just recently purchased “Magic of Making Up” a few days ago. I would just like to talk/message you privately. The book is great so far! but i have some questions that I would like to ask YOU though.
-Thanks
Yeah, send me a email and i will get back to you as soon as possible.
Every time someone orders The Magic Of Making Up i normally email them right away to see if they need any extra help.
Sincerely, Thomas Trumen
I have been receiving your e-mails for a couple of weeks, it’s hard to watch the videos as my kids are always around. Even though I haven’t done anything, I feel better just knowing that other people feel the same way, and I’m following your advise and actually getting over him. Feel so much better already. thanks
Thomas you are amazing!!! I followed all your advice and this is what happened…my ex went from despising me to missing me!
No Contact – resulted in her starting to text, email and call me more and more over a period of 7 weeks!! This def made her miss me and want what was no longer on a plate!
Ive changed everything about me, ive lost weight, changed my hair, my look, my attitude – everything!
We met for the ’1st Outing’ and she ended up crying in my arms telling me she misses me and is finding it really hard….Master Thomas – you did that…and i thank you so so much from the bottom of my broken, but on the mend – heart.
Im taking things slowly, and this bit it really hard, much harder than i thought it would be because i know i can have her back, but its too soon, so i had to walk away – god that took every bit of strength i had. I will keep watching your videos and listen to your advice, because i know you will keep me strong and focussed.
Put your trust in Thomas and TDub, you wont regret it! I read comments like this last month and thought – what the hell – ive got nothing to lose and hopefully allot to gain! I am so glad i took the leap of faith – it has so paid off and i cant believe how it works – its amazing!! You will see and you will be on here too leaving positive comments! Guarenteed!!
Thank you so so much Thomas and TDUB – i dont feel like a thank you is enough xxx
I appreciate the comment James!
I new that eventually you would get your ex back.
For everyone that is reading this you can save your relationship if you know exactly what to do and when to do it. If you want to get your ex back then you need to sign up to get, my free guides, videos, and reply to your questions from me personally.
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THOMAS, HAS BEEN MY BLESSING.
HERE IS MY STORY, AND HOW IT HELPED SO FAR! IT WAS A HELL OF A SITUATION FOR ME, AND I NEVER BEEN SO HOPELESS IN MY WHOLE LIFE. I hope my story inspires you, and convinces you that he’s stuff works!
I was with my Fiancee for two years, and loved him to death!! He was my world, my love, and my best friend. We were about to move in together this Summer, and then get married. Now, I’ll tell you the issue.
We were two cultures, which I accepted! I am Jewish, and he is Hindu. My family accepted him like a son, and his family was extremely racist, and not accepting. However, he told me that he loves me and he only wants me. We had an amazing connection at the beginning of our relationship, and as we went on our relationship we encountered a lot of issues which I’ll address. I came from a wealthy home, and he didn’t – which DID NOT matter to me. I loved him with all that he is – I didn’t care about his culture, or where he came from, I cared for who he is as a person! He became VERY disrespectful towards my Mom. He did put in as much into our relatioship as I did. I tried SO HARD to fit in with his friends, and they are very vulgar, and racist too. He never appreciated how hard I did try to fit it, but I was hard for me. He would like act like the perfect Husband to me, and then with everyone else he acted so weird. I did love him with all my heart!!!!! Here is how we broke up, AND I WANT HIM BACK BECAUSE I DO LOVE HIM.
He broke up with me two weeks my Birthday. He was suppose to see me, and then he called me. He told me that we are done!!! HUNG UP THE PHONE! Then TURNED OFF HIS PHONE! It was horrible, and I was devastated. What ended up happening that I went to our apartment, his frends were there, and my Mom was there with me. They left us alone, and I made him paintings for the apartment because we were going to move in together. He took them down, and told me that I am a great artist – he was crying. He told me that I WAS A BURDEN, AND WE ARE DONE. I stood there the whole night, yes I did that mistake by begging him to change his mind. After that night we E-mailed each other everyday – then, I ended up seeing him on my Birthday. We had an amazing time, we really reconnected so well. We made love, and after that he started to cry. During that week that we split up HE KISSED TWO GIRLS. I was devastated, but I forgave him because I thought we were going to repair our bridge. TWO DAYS LATER HE BROKE UP WITH ME AGAIN!!!!! IT was his Birthday, and we were suppose to spend it together – but he wanted to be with his friends, so I gave him space. During that whole day HE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS SO HAPPY, AND THAT HE LOVES ME – THEN, THE NEXT MINUTE HE DIDN’T!!!!!!!! I was freaking out! His friends never liked me, and I am 100% positive that they manipulated my love! IT WAS A DISASTER!
For a couple of weeks, I agreed with it, then I went back on my word. Yes, I did beg, plead for him to come back. I went on vacation for one week – he gave me all my paintings back during that time, even the promise ring that I gave him… It was so hard, and so horrible..!!! I never felt so destroyed in my whole life. I finally cut contact with him, and left him a voicemail. Never called me back. Recently I sent him an email that I moved on from the break up, and apologized for not respecting his wishes. Hope that we can catch up sometime and maybe we can try to be friends. Nothing so far.
No contact period – iT IS THE HARDEST STAGE POSSIBLE, BUT A MUST!!!! I emphasized that because if I continued contacted him, even after we broke the ice. We won’t be able to break the pattern. As you can see, I had a hell of a break him with my Fiancee. It killed me every single day, but I knew that after each day went by – I was one more day closer to getting him back.
After TRULY LISTENING, AND UNDERSTANDING Thomas. I backed off completely – for one week straight of no contact. Here’s the progressed I made so far, and hope to continue more positivity for here on in. I took a chance, and I called. My heart nearly stopped when he picked up! I was so nervous, but then I thought of all of Thomas’s tips, and guidance. His voice was in my head to assure that you are over the break up, moved on, and be calm, and CONFIDENT. Most important part you have to be – POSITIVE, AND CONFIDENT. After all he put me through, I wasn’t sure if I could keep myself together – took a deep breath, and said yes Amanda DO THIS, YOU LOVE HIM, AND WANT HIM BACK!!!!!
This is how our conversation played out. He picked up, and was SURPRISED, AND HAPPY to hear for me. It sounded like he was a bit nervous, and emotional. I was emotional, VERY EMOTIONAL – but, I kept it inside because I had to stay strong! His battery was very low, and it was too bad that he couldn’t really have a steady convo because his battery died, then we had to call each other back. Anyhow, he was at work with his parents. He asked me questions about my life, and he told me that he needed space because if we talk HE IS AFRAID OF THE ATTACHMENT AGAIN. There! He said it indirectly, that he still has feelings for me. We texted each other after to wish each other good luck for our work stuf that night, and we’ll talk soon again.
He wants to be phone buddies for now, but that’s okay because then we can develop a good emotional link, and get a first impression meeting again! He agreed to put all water under the bridge, but he is still uncertain. ALL THANKS TO THOMAS, I WENT FROM A TOTAL NIGHTMARE, AND A HELL HOLE TO COMMUNICATION TO THE ONE I LOVE. I KNOW THAT THIS DOES NOT HAPPEN OVER NIGHT, OR WEEKS.
BUT IF ITS TRUE LOVE, AND LISTEN TO HIS ADVICE – ANY HOPELESS SITUATION, ESPECIALLY MINE WAS TURNED AROUND!!!!!!!!!
THOMAS, I CAN’T THANK YOU ENOUGH, AND YOU NOT ONLY SAVED THE HOPE WITH MY FIANCEE AND I. BUT, SAVED THE LAST HOPE THAT I HAD IN MY HEART.
I only wish you Thomas, the very best – you changed so many people’s lives. All because of you:)!
Amanda.
hey thomas following you plan and it works i cant believe it honest….everything you say happens happens….its unbelievable….truly a master….
Thomas-
Your Amazing!!!!!
I’ve listened to your Madness, TW Jackson too.
The Books are like manuals to Follow & Read over & over again….
How bad do you want your Ex-Back???
BAD
Since applying & Studying-I’m Close….
I am very CLOSE to getting my EX-BACK!!!!!!!!
So close I can taste it…
Thanks Thomas….Thanks Thomas!!!!!!!!
Amazing Joey V!!!
If you do what I and TW Jackson tell you then you will succeed. I am sure you are doing “EXACTLY” everything i have told you and i am sure you own The Magic Of Making Up. See what happens when you study and follow everything we are teaching you step by step!!!
I have to warn you Joey!!!
This is the hardest part of the process because now that you see everything is falling into place and everything is working you will feel the need to rush this process. You must take your time!!! You only have one shot to do this so you better do it right!!!
Make sure you take your ex out on at least 3 outings and make sure these outings are only 30 minutes long. Before you start the outing tell your ex that you have things to do afterwards and you only have 30 minutes to hang out. When you tell your ex this she or he will be more interested and attracted to you during the outing because now your ex wants to know what you will be doing afterwards and they know they only have so much time with you.
Joey make sure you also end this outing at the climax, this is very important!!!
By ending the outing at the climax your ex will want to hang out with you again. People love climaxes and if you can cut your ex off at the climax your ex will want to have another one. When you feel like you and your ex are having a good time or when you see your ex smile or laugh say…
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“(name), i have been having a great time but i have to get going in about 5 minutes.”
This will make your ex EXTREMELY CURIOUS and they might say…
“Please dont go, why do you have to go?” and this is when you know your ex is now missing you and wanting you again.
Now tell your ex….
“(name), i know we are having a great time and we will have to continue this another day but i have to go. Me and one of my special/close friends are going to see a movie and then go out to eat”
If your ex still asks questions or wants to know if you are dating someone or who you are with say…
“(name), me and Eliza (say opposite sex) are going to go see (name of move) and then we are going to eat at (name of place). Its a date but its just a”CASUAL DATE (make sure you say its causal).” (name), dont worry about it. It’s nothing serious (make sure you smile when you say its nothing serious)
As you noticed the point of saying this is to NOT make your ex jealous at all!!!
You are telling your ex its just CASUAL and ITS NOTHING SERIOUS. Its not going to create jealousy. Its going to create attraction because your ex knows that other people want you, they know you are STILL AVAILABLE, and your ex knows ITS NOTHING SERIOUS.
If you do it right your ex should act in a positive way and when you leave your ex will be thinking all night about what you could be possibly doing with this other person. This is what is going to make your ex extremely attracted to you and make them “WANT TO ASK YOU” on another outing.
When the outing is over give your ex a hug or a hand shake and say good by. Joey, make sure you do not ask to go out on the next outing. Let your ex ask you and if they dont ask you then wait 2 weeks for your ex to call you. If your ex calls you then you know “THEY ARE FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN!”
If your ex does not call you after 2 weeks then you just have to call them back and say the “EXACT SAME THING” that me and TW Jackson told you to say on the first outing. Just like it says in The Magic Of Making Up.
Joey, if you can get the 1st outing then you can get the 2nd and if you can get the 2nd you can get the 3rd. You have to make sure to take this as gradual as you can and make sure you only go on a outing once every week, but preferably ever other week.
What you want to do when you are planning the outing is try to plan it 2 weeks in advance, then call your ex a week before you have the outing to confirm that you are still going. What this does is give you a chance to talk to your ex briefly before you meet up. By doing this it will make your ex want to see you even more on the outing.
I know Joey, that you may be thinking…
“How about i just start taking my ex out on long dates after the 1st outing”
You cant do that!!!
What you are doing with the outings is building a new friendship/relationship with your ex. This will make your ex comfortable around you again and each time they see you they should feel different about you and gradually forget about the past (anything bad or mistakes) since you are “BREAKING THE PATTERN” like i have told you and how TW Jackson describes it in The Magic Of Making Up.
Then once you have a strong friendship/relationship with your ex they will be really comfortable going on a date with you. Once you start going on “EMOTIONAL CHARGED DATES” just like i tell you and how TW Jackson tells you in The Magic Of Making Up it will build a “NEW FOUNDATION FOR A FUTURE RELATIONSHIP!”
The stronger the new friendship/relationship with your ex and the stronger “THE NEW EMOTIONAL FOUNDATION” you have built from the emotionally charged dates the more of a chance you have for your ex to say “YES” to you when you ask them to get into a serious relationship with you.
Your almost there Joey! Just keep doing what i tell you and what TW Jackson tells you in The Magic Of Making Up. Its only a matter of time before you can join the other 60,000 relationships that have been saved because of TW Jackson and The Magic Of Making Up.
If anyone is reading this and you are going through a break up then you need to “SIGN UP RIGHT NOW” to my news letter to get free guides, videos, and special one on one support from me and TW Jackson when you buy The Magic Of Making Up.
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Hi Thomas!
Bought the book, working the system, sent the letter…and feeling better already
But, will it still work if I’ve already made all the fatal mistakes and then some?
Yes, Bentley!
If you have made all the mistakes me and TW Jackson talk about you can still save your relationship. In some cases making mistakes can actually help you because
your ex will see the sudden change and this will get their attention. This can create curiosity and and draw your ex into the plan we tell you to follow. Your are on the right track! Just study The Magic Of Making Up, the videos i send you, and following everything. You will see results, GUARANTEED
looking forward in giving this a shot, I think i am going to try the magic of making up since it seems to be working for everyone else.
Hey Thomas , Wonderful Website .
Your Advice Is Just Simply Amazing . Nuff Said . Agreed Everyone ?
No Contact is sort of working for me
And im starting to feel good about myself as im socializing with more and more and gaining a shit load of muscle . loving life
Thankyou
Thank you very much for all your videos,e-mails and the free guide.It was the best advice i ever become.And by the way thanks to you i am about to meet her again!
Without your and TW Jackson’s help i would be hopeless and depressed now.Thanks again.
Great advice, totally helped me. Feeling better and ready for whatever the outcome!
You are doing a wonderful job!!!Thanks a ton!!!seriously!!!
Hi Thomas
Thank you so much. Your advice is really helping me deal with the break up. I’m still in the no contact stage. But I’m starting to feel a whole lot better about myself. I still miss him a lot, but I feel a lot more confident.
hey..ur genius..i really liked ur advice..thought will never hear from her but your tactics and plan made to her to talk to me again..thanks..
Hey…..Your Books have instilled a new confidence in me I didn’t have before! I’ve lost heaps of weight and toned up…. Got a tan… New hair and in general feel great! I’m still working on winning my ex back! But I feel positive it will happen! Thansk to you!!!
Thanks again
Tash
Your videos are great!!! I really appreciate you taking the time to help others!! I’ve been following your plan and have seen results, but my situation is rather unique. I need your help Thomas!!!! Keep up the videos!
Thomas, you trully saved me! I was frustrated- no need to mention- and desperate because I losed my boyfriend. The day we breakup, I searched for article how to get him back and lucky me I founded you! I live at southeast asia and not yet work so I have no dollar to buy the book. I really really need and thank for your free videos, audios, and articles. I hope you will help me more.. I have no one else to help me! Unfortunately, my feeling goes better each day by your tutorial and I understand much things. Thankyou once again, I fully respect you.
Hi Stefani!
Thanks so much for the great comment. It really does motivate me to help you and everyone else anymore when you are willing to share your progress with me! I know it can be hard because it seems like no one wants to help you while you are going through this horrible time. As you can tell, I am here for you!
Take care! And keep making progress!
hi thomas!
Inspite being depress still God answered my prayers by founding you. I’am also from southeast Asian country like stefani, I’am unemployed so I couldn’t afford to buy the book by T-dub even if i want to. I’ve never been so desperate and sad like what i’m feeling now, it was only a week ago and so i did all the mistakes like begging, etc.. but having to watch your videos and listening to your advice I decided that yesterday will be my last day for mistake and now will be no contact period. I will follow your steps and hope for success. You give me and hundreds of people HOPE, you inspire me and help so many.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE FREE EMAILS AND VIDEOS. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND YOU, AND TO EVERYONE PLS DON’T HESITATE TO SIGN UP OR ASK FOR THOMAS’ HELP.
YOU AND T-DUB ARE GREAT GUYS, GOD WILL ALWAYS BLESS YOU HAPPINESS!
Hi MC!
Thanks so much for the sincere compliments, Really! I try really hard to make your life and everyone else’s life better then it was before. Even if you do not get your ex back, its ok. You have to look at the break up as an opportunity to learn something new about your self so you do not have to feel this pain EVER AGAIN! Even if you do or do not get your ex back you will be able to take this experience and everything you have learned to help you have a very bright future!
One Step At A Time…..
Thank you so much.
I don’t know what else to say right now but i will write you soon.
I fell better after discovering you
Hi Thomos,
Man I am an engineer could figure out many issues and I just rock at my job but love shattered my life
Nothing worked nothing came handy nor my problem solving skills , math , my programming skills, Nor my
tons of certificates I have …..Your tips worked for me. My girl fell for me after breakup followed most of
your advice and I am extremely happy !!!! You good at your work man .
I am into this new relationship just 3 months back and broke up!!! Followed your tips and it worked for me
I am sure if it worked for a guy like me who hardly had any history with this girl , I am sure who had relationships with
people from years and brokeup should , If they follow your advice I guess they should come out with flying colours !!!Thanks man God bless…
Just your tips helped me man .
now i feel we are in love man !!! she makes me feel so ghosh
XYZ…. I thank you from bottom of my heart
Heya Thomas, After reading through your literature I followed the steps, and went on a few dates like you suggested, And ended up meeting someone new, with my Ex calling me only a few days afterwards asking to see me. Im not sure how, but your a genius mate (:
hi TOM
I want to thank you for everything that you have given me so far.you have taught me a lot and it not just only to get my ex back but also to be the best of me which i have never thought i could be.i did not have hope that i could get my ex back now i see soon maybe i will be able to get her back and it all depends on me now if i still want her back.but your stuff really works and it only needs a positive mind and everything will be just fine.am happy that i found you site
Thomas,
Thank you for the awesome videos and articles every bit of advice is so on. Its great to have an path to follow.
Without it I would still be on the middle of the ocean with no idea what direction to go. This the signal fire to land and I am on my way.
Hey Thomas just to say that all of your videos that you have given me are doing me a world of good. They are really helping me to get over this and move on from the break up. I am completely seeing things in a different light
and the videos have helped me to figure out why my ex left me in the first place. I’m now reading a lot which I never used to, I use to see it as a chore but now i really enjoy it. I’m also exercising and going to the gym more regularly. I can feel the changes within myself but my personality I feel is still the same, that is hard to change. I will be sending you an email shortly called Hey Thomas Thank You. I hope you can get the time to read it cheers.
Hi Christopher!
I am surprised at how much you are doing! Your reading, going to the gym, and getting over the break up. Your doing exactly what you need to be doing to improve your current situation, just keep doing what you are doing and you will be fine.
Look forward to getting your email Christopher
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Thomas – the videos are excellent. You have a very good way of explaining things, and you come across in a convincing way.
An inspiration !
Hey Thomas,
I have been watching your videos and reading your free guides and stuff. I actually bought the book of TW yesterday and just got done reading it. I will be reading it over and over again until it gets really into my system. haha. I have been doing the no contact period for about two weeks now since we had our last talk/closure talk after our breakup. I hope this works for me. Hoping to hear from you. Thanks for the Help!
I’m really looking forward!
Hi Thomas thanks for the advice a while ago.
You really are a blessing and a savior of those people who got their hearts broken. you know exactly what to say and can read between the lines. I’am so amaze on how you can understand the meaning of every behavior and how you know the exact approach on that.
For those who have no direction or path, Listen to Thomas because he knows the right way for us to be happy either on getting our ex back or having a good relationship with someone else. sign up for his free emails. THANKS THOMAS FOR BEING HERE I WISH YOU ALL THE SUCCESS IN LIFE.
This is the best advice ever-Ive only been broken up with my ex for 6 weeks and things are looking up- I was so lost and this advice is the only credible advice to take around. Ive lost 4 kgs, got a new great job, getting good pay etc. Going to keep using the program and hopefully it will lead to getting my ex back (i think it will)… TT your the greatest
When i got to this website, i didn’t know it could work.I decided to have fun by reading everyday’s email and slowly i started to put them into practice.After One month of no contact, i contacted him and kept on communicating for one month until two days ago when we met.He was happy to see me and congratulated me for fighting for our love and told me not to give up on him.Im so happy im back into his arms again.If it were not for your help,i wouldn’t have made it also patience pays.Im so happy.Thankyou Thomas.
thank you so much for helping me in this rough journey.
These tips and helpful hints are really great! I was so skeptical at first, and made a lot of mistakes trying to figure things out myself. But this guide helped me correct even those! Not only that, but losing my ex was the worst thing and still is the worst thing I have ever been through. However, even when I felt like there was no hope and I was miserable and crying every day, this guide truely helped me through it. I am so happy now, and I feel sure that this guide can and will help anyone who needs it…. Even if it is not in the way you expect to recieve it!
Dear Thomas,
I just wanted to say thanks for your help and support. So: Thank you soo much!
I’m still in the no contact phase (we’ve been broken up for 4 weeks now, no contact whatsoever for 2). At times, I’m still really down and sad, but whenever I read your mails and watch your videos, they immediately make me feel better and more confident. I’m trying to look after myself now and to get my head on straight and you’ve been so great in helping me to do that (and also in helping me to put T Dub’s advice into practice).
I still want my ex back and miss him, but thanks to you, I really have the feeling that I will be alright whichever way it will turn out.
Hoping to hear from you soon,
Christine
hey, thanks for the vidoes. nice to working with you
Dear thomas,
you simply are superb. As always want to start my mail with a load of thanks… If there wasn’t you i would have been… You know what.
I am very happy that my partner is back and totally changed. I am working your steps from past two months and i could get my girl friend back. Not only that the ways you taught me also changed me into a good human being. I could make our relation so good that both of us are very very happy. If there wasn’t you these things were impossible for me. So i would like to tell everybody that if you keep faith on our dear thomas, you can get your ex back as i did. Those steps works if you work it. So thanks once again. May god bless you always and merry christmas to everybody.
Hi Thomas,
I really do feel better than before after seeing all your videos and thinking that this is really going to work! I feel confident and that’s a start =) Going through the “no contact period” right now. But what sucks, he has a new relationship already… I’ll try my best to apply all your meds to the situation!
Kim
Hi Thomas,
The book really helped me find peace after the break up, it really gave the best advice, I can sleep again and go to work and have fun with my friends. Now I made the phone call and it did not went well but I wasn’t dissapointed since I’m definitely over the break up!!!
Hi Zona
Magic Of Making Up
Getting over the break up is the first step to get your ex back. Remember you can use the fast forward technique in The Magic Of Making Up if you are having a relapse of emotions. Its ok the phone conversation did not go as well as you wanted it to. He may not be over the break up yet. If thats the case then hes going to need more time. Try back again in about 2 weeks. What matters the most is not that The Magic Of Making Up has helped you get your ex back but its helped you deal with your break up in a constructive way and help you deal with it the best way you can.
Thomas,
Have researched a lot of different resources for making up. Although there are similarities amongst most, the advice from yourself and TW seem to be the most sincere. I am a month into the breakup and have been in no contact for over a week. She has already started contacting me about random insignificant things, which is obviously her finding reasons to reach out now that she is thinking I am over her. It will be interesting to see how the rest of the strategies unravel over the next few months. Thanks for all the help and advice. It has been critical in getting through this emotional time. Cheers…
Thomas, I think I made a mistake I sent the second chance letter two weeks after the initial break-up. But, I can say I have held strong to the NC. Since we broke up I have not texted, emailed, or called. In fact, I have been avoiding places that we might see each other. Which, I must tell you sucks because we go to the same places. See, I really love this women, I also didn’t realise how much until she was gone. I have been exercising and working on going back out and surrounding myself with friends. I would like to say I am still completely in the dark. But, I know that life must go on. Thank you for all of your great advice. It has really helped me alot…
Hey Thomas
Your books and videos really help. Since at the moment (3 months after the breakup) i still feel like i need her back in my life. I see all the mistakes i made in our relationship and want to fix them. She is in a rebound at the moment and yes, it is killing me but i need to keep going if i wantthis to work out
Thanks!
Hi there Thomas. Thanks, firstly, for all the effort and videos you put out there. Your dedication is great.
THEN, secondly, what do you do when you had the best ever brake up… just a lovely coffee, giving a goodbye gift, receiving a goodbye hug and a confession that she still likes you, but that the timing was just horrible (as you agreed).
I laid low for 4 and a half weeks, tried to make contact, but with LIMITED success. Really. It was like “I prefer it if we stick to texting and not talking on the phone or meeting.” What do you make of that?
Please, oh wise one!
Thanks!
Hi Steph
Its nice to see your using The Magic Of Making Up to help you get over the break up but he is clearly not over the break up yet. Sounds like he is still resenting a little. Dont text him no more then twice a week. A week after texting if you notice hes providing you with details to what it is he is doing, replying back to you in a reasonable amount of time, and asking you questions….these are all signs of displaying interest and if hes doing this after another week or 2 of texting then give him a call again. Keep in mind to read The Magic Of Making Up again to stay fresh on what to do and what not to do to get your ex back.
If your worried about him hanging up on you or not wanting to talk to you. Then when you call him before you give him a chance to say anything do what i call
“THE POSITIVE PERSPECTIVE TECHNIQUE” (this is a technique i teach to my coaching students)
When you call say this
“Hi (ex name), This is (your name). We have been texting back and forth for awhile and i feel like we are able to hold a good conversations now, so i figured id give you a call and see how well you are doing, I wanted to talk to you about (something your ex likes), do you have a few minutes to talk?”
By doing this you make your ex think that the conversation is going to be just about him and its going to be about something that he likes and you let him know its only going to be a few minutes so he will make time to talk to you. This puts him in a positive perspective about you and the conversation. This makes it easy for him to talk to you and hard to resit talking to you because its going to be about something he likes!!!!
Hope this helps everyone
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Hey I love the information you provide, keep it up! Believe it or not I sometimes wish your emails were daily and literally felt like you were taking me by the hand and saying ok this is what you do now, now that you have completed this do this, etc…
Dear thomas,
Thank you for being my best friend during those difficult past few weeks. It’s amazing how I realized that nobody really gives a shit that I’m up all night crying and I lost 15 pounds in 2 weeks. You and your videos gave me hope, put a smile on my face, and stopped me from doing all the embarrassing begging.
Thomas,
I want to thank you for discussing my breakup over skype. Just when I thought my ex was acting indifference you gave me some sign of HOPE. I will follow through with your plan and hope to date my ex back soon. I believe there will be a second chance to making my relationship work and it is all because of your great advise.
Thanks a million…
Dear Thomas
Thanks for everything because without you,i was lost wondering if my i could repair my love story, but i didn t have that courage…..until I discover you and all that you do for us. Now i learn something from you and i am strong with hope and I decide to bring my ex back.
thanks again
Thomas,
You’re a genious about relationships. God bless you and your work on this project.
Renato
Hi Thomas thanks for your advice and your funny emails!
Thomas, Thank you for the advice I’m trying to follow all of it. My husband left and now wants a divorce. I’m afraid the only outing I’ll be able to get him on will be on how to divide our stuff. I am going to do everything you say, I really don’t want a divorce. Thank you for the support!
Thank you for all the help so far i’ve just started the NC rule hard stuff but taking it day by day also purchased TW Magic of making up, thanks hope it works well for me !!
Hey Thomas! I just signed up for your free bonus techniques earlier on and I’m truly looking forward to your emails.
I watched both of your videos, including the ‘thank you’ video and wow!! Magic of Making Up sure works like MAGIC. I’m so happy for you.
Well I did the second chance letter about a few days back and my ex hasn’t called me or contacted me since….since we broke up 3 weeks ago even after I sent that letter.
Is there a possibility that my ex would think “Oh that’s great, she’s moved on already. I won’t interfere with her social life” or whatsoever?
Is there another technique if the second chance letter did not make my ex call or text me?
Hi KO!
Your ex will only feel like that if you come accross like that in the second chance letter. If you wrote it how it should have been done and if you let them know you would be willing to talk to them in the future then they will not get that vibe. If you come across as you want to share it with them then they will not feel like they are interfering.
Give the letter at least 2 weeks before you do anything else. If you sent the magic of making up second chance letter right after the break up and they are still upset then it could take longer for them to respond. If you sent the letter when they are still REALLY UPSET they may not even read it and throw it away. If you sent the magic of making up second chance letter after they have had time to let their emotions settle and they are not so emotional then you will get a faster reply. If they are not to emotional and they are starting to get over the break up when they read it then they will most likely reply. This is why i do not recommend to send it right after the break up.
Is there another technique if your ex does not respond to the letter?
Yes! Give them a call and use the technique that i talked about in my previous comment that i posted on….
January 13th, 2011 at 7:48 am
“THE POSITIVE PERCEIVED PERSPECTIVE TECHNIQUE”
There is another technique that i teach called
“LC/CG CREATING CRISIS COMMUNICATION”
This is were i show you how to create an idea A CERTAIN WAY in someones head or multiple peoples heads and this person or people
will be forced to pass that idea onto the person you want to approach you. The compound effect of you talking
to someone or multiple people and them talking to the person you want to talk to you will force them to approach you.
Your idea which is about person you want to approach you > idea gets passed on to people that is liked and trusted by the person you want to approach you > idea is now passed on to the person you want to approach you by people they like and trust > idea is past back to you through the person you wanted to original approach you > Because idea is already planted in the head of the person you want to approach you. You do not have to create idea because everyone else that is liked and trusted already did the work for you. Now you just ask this person to take action with the idea and they will say yes because the action will match the idea that has been created by people they like and trust created!!!
Its a VERY complex technique but it always works. It takes at least 2-3 hrs to teach it. All of my coaching students end up learning how to do this. As of right now just use “THE POSITIVE PERCEIVED PERSPECTIVE TECHNIQUE” as a last resort. While you are on the call remember to keep it short and the hole idea of the call is to change your exes perceived perspective of you and creating a new one that makes them no longer associate you with PAIN or PRESSURE but with PLEASURE!
If They have a perceived perspective of you and it is PLEASURE you can be sure to count on they will want to continue to talk to you and the more you re enforce that perspective the more they will want to be associated with you!
HOPE THAT HELPS!!!
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Hi,
I was extremely depressed, but after watching your videos I’ve got a desire to live again. I am so extremely happy I’ve found your videos!
Thanks a lot !!!!
Hey Thomas -
Just wanted to take a minute to say thanks for all of your help. You were there for me during a really hard time with my break-up and I don’t think I would have made it through had it not been for your newletters, emails and live coaching. Now that I am over my break-up I have been able to start dating again and I am meeting some really great people. Anyone going through a break-up right now can really benefit from all that you have to offer and teach!
Hey thomas my man!
I Got the first outing done!! i went to close for the second but got some hesitation from my ex, so i used the line you said about her still resenting me and got her to agree with that, she said she was busy this weekend so i said i will call her again in a few weeks or so. But then on sunday night she text me saying she has some friends that needed help wih some things and she said i would know more than her to help them. It was the first time she has text me in 7 months. Now i am going to say this, i am busy planning a trip with friends i will text you in a few days with my advice(some curiousity for her).
All of the advice you have given me is complete gold dust, everything has become clear now wheter i get my ex back or not. this is valuable info about understanding what break ups are all about. Priceless!
Listen to Thomas!! This stuff actually works! Believe me, I’m on my third outing with my ex and I couldn’t have gotten this far without him.
If you follow the emails and the videos you’ll get another shot with your ex for sure. He knows his stuff!!
THX THOMAS
Thomas and TW Jackson,
Both of you have helped me tremendously in recovering from this break up and really figuring things out. I am still in the early phase of no contact, but all your videos and the guides have really helped me keep my head on straight in a very confusing time. This has been a tough one, I am optimistic for a reunion with my ex love! Thank you guys sooo much!
I think your dedication to helping people shows through and you should be proud of yourself. At the bare minimum, you help people get through this by giving them a strategy. Thank you Thomas.
Hi Thomas,
Ain’t got any words. I am totally speechless. As always starting my comment with a huge thanks. Actually I can’t stop myself thanking you. You and T.W. Jackson changed my world. Which i thought was truely impossible. You are a great and a friend indeed. I am just grateful toward you. I am damn lucky that I hat a friend like you my bro. I am so happy and excited that i can’t even say what i am feeling brother. May god bless you. Love you.
Thomas, your videos are wonderful. Well over a year ago I’ve learned of TW Jackson’s methods and used them to successfully getting my ex back, even though he was with another woman.
Since then we’ve gotten engaged and couldn’t be happier. I stay subscribed to your videos to remind myself how relationships need constant maintenance to stay healthy and to remind myself that I would never want to go through the heartbreak ever again.
I’ve never been happier. Thank you for helping others that have been in my situation. It truly works and not only does it get us our ex back, it also helps us improve our relationships, and most importantly, ourselves.
I appreciate how you take your time and effort to help each and every person in need. It truly means a lot.
I really enjoy watching your videos and hearing your story. It gives me hope that I can get back together with the ex. Thanks
Hey Thomas
I´m living in Germany and have spend a lot of money in ex-back books like you….but know i am at my finish!
Your words make sense for me and i am have all ready changed a lot in my life.
If all going well, i am start to have my first outing in few weeks
Stay in touch!
Hey thomas! I’ve recently emailed you [nudge nudge.] I’d just like to say you’ve inspired me to help others with this sort of thing. Your advice is gold to a poor man! You’re a true help and I promise to recommend you to anyone in need. You’ve saved me pretty much from suicide or a complete melt down. You’re amazing man! Cheers x
I have yet to implement anything from the magic of making up book to getting my ex back but I have been using the fast forward program to make myself get over the break up and let me tell you it works wonders!
The videos and the emails and the links that I get sent to me just about everyday contain so much useful advice its amazing. I haven’t felt this good about myself and my life since she broke up with me. I can’t wait to start applying the techniques in the book to get the love of my life back. Even if things don’t work out and I can’t get her back I will not ask for a refund.
Just the basic advice in the book is worth the money I paid and will help me with future relationships and just life in general.
Thank you so much Thomas and Tdub for this help in fixing the part of my life that I screwed up.
Antonio
Hey,
Well Tom im in the no/limited contact period and its very up and down. Some days i want to talk to her and some days i dont. I have not said anything to her in quite some time and am just waiting for her to contact me. I was in the worst state i had ever been in the past few months, it felt like i was dying everyday but right now im doing alot better. I got the Tdub system and the watch your videos all the time it really does help. Im on the road back to happyness and i have my friends family, tdub and you to thank.
Hey Thomas,
today is my first outing. I´m prepared myself very seriously…know what to say. I´m start with 2 hours sport before the meeting starts…hehe
I am very confident and look awesome…happy…my attitude is just upbeat…hehe
Thanks for all the stuff u send me
Hey Thomas, the outing was amazing. In the middle of the outing my ex was crying, because she though she will never see me.
Should I call her to set this week the 2nd outing?
Hi Leo!
I am glad to hear the outing you had was amazing. Give her at least a week to ask you on the next outing. Just like it says in The Magic Of Making Up. Give your ex a chance to show interest. If your ex does not ask for the next outing within 1-2 weeks then ask them for another outing.
Crying on the outing? This is not good!!!
Its BAD because you need your ex to associate you with comfort and pleasure, not pressure and pain!
Next time your ex wants to cry or talk about anything that could create pressure or pain you need to put up boundaries!
BUILD BOUNDARIES!
When you do this you keep things comfortable and pleasureful. It is a way of changing the subject and taking control of the conversation that will actually make the person you are talking to you thank you for it!
When you are BB you must make sure you do these things…
1. Agree/ “I understand and thats ok”
2. Sympathize/ “i know how you feel, the truth is i feel the same way”
3. Acceptance/ “i accept that and you/we do not have to change anything”
4. The Benefit/ “if we can talk/do this later at a better time then we will understand each other more, I feel like if we talk about this (what it is) now it could create tension and make us fight, so lets talk about it later and only talk about good things….. (then continue on with conversation)
5. Include A trusted and respected person or people (optional but powerful)/ ” if we do it like this, not only will we benefit but so n so will also feel better about it”
If you follow that outline for building boundaries then you will make sure the conversation stays comfortable and pleasureful. Also, if your ex cries use this technique to get her mind off what it is on and change the subject. If you do this right then the person you are talking to will like it and respect you for it.
If someone trys to BUST YOUR BOUNDARIES then say basically say the same thing again but make it more stern!
…and if they try to push again say “I told you how i feel, since you do not respect what i am doing here for the both of us then i am going to end
this conversation. I am willing to talk again to you about anthing else accept this …and if you want to talk about anything besides this feel free to contact me.”
1.Build The Boundary
2.Re Enforce The Boundary
3.Walk Away nicely but leave it open
Keep in mind you may have to re inforce it once or walk away. Especially if the person is used to talking to you about things that you are now saying you do not want to. By putting up a boundary your re training the person. So it might take a few times to get the idea. But in the end it re assures that the conversations avoids pain and pressure and stays comfortable and pleasureful!!!
This is a great technique to use in all areas of life. When you want to change the subject, make someone respect you, or when you are having an argument. It works really good. I am surprised i am just giving it away for FREE!
…But i really want to help!!! …And i am sure this will!
If you have not you need to sign up to my news letter by filling out the form towards the top of the page. Once you sign up i will send you free ebooks and videos to help you save your relationship! See you inside my news letter!!!
hey thomas thanks so much for all the help and advice it really is brilliant and is helping far more than I could ever tell you. ur an awesome guy for giving out all this help to everyone so they can get their ex’s back and help make them happy again!
Thanks Joe Alot Joe!
I do take this very seriously and try as hard as i can to make everyones life easier. The most important thing i do is try to help you make your break up the best learning experience that i can possible make it. The Magic Of Making Up does help but i try to help way beyond that with videos and my support!
It makes me happy that your happy!!
You’re doing a great job Thomas, keep it up!
Thanks for everything!!
Great advice and all… I’m just starting the actual things that the book and the videos are saying… hopefully, I’ll be able to report the same level of success as the guys who’ve posted here.
Wish me luck!
You are doing fantastic Thomas! Thanks for everything. Carry on forth the knowledge of relationships!
All the information im getting is really working well im still in the no contact stage but im getting in shape and making my life good I still am not totaly over my ex yet just 90% of tge way there but it is all thanks to your information that I am. Keep it up !
This advice really works. thanks Thomas, keep up the work
You have a very good site and lots of excellent advice.
Hey Thomas,
Leo here
I have had yesterday the first date with my ex and it was amazing…she allready gets closer to me, but nothing worst or crazy stuff
Do I have talk for commitment after the 2nd date or do I have to wait for the 3rd?
I´ll know she want me back, but I don´t give in and just be cool
( She is really surprised how I have changed )
Thomas…you are amazing….!
Bye
This “system” really does work! You must follow it EXACTLY as it says. Do not go out of bounds! I made a small mistake but I know what I need to do to fix it. Thanks for everything! Teresa
The advice was superb and without doubt the best way forward.
I am still broken up with my ex over 4 months ago but now listening to Thomas i hope i can get back soon.
Moreover, if i do not get back then this has still helped me to move on with my life.
Hey Thomas! Thanks for all the emails! It is slowly but surely working for me! I just hope it all works out in the end! Thank you for all the help you have given me!
Hey Thomas
I have done all the outings and dates…I have asked my Ex for commitment and she doesn´t say no ( she was surprised, that I have asked her ) ( She was started to crying, after I asked her for commitment ). But she is willing to give me a 2nd chance…she said, that she need time to think about it and dont want to rush something ( There is some kind of love, but she worries about that she will break my heart a 2nd time sometimes ). She is also dating other people ( online – dating )…myself was very cool and I have had let her know that I am supportive.
Do I have to build more boundaries, If she wants to talk about us or who she is dating?
Next day my heart was really damaged, but I know I have to take control of my feelings and start to focus to be patient.
Pressure is the last thing that I want to apply…maybe after she is done dating, she will realize that I am the one for her.
I am keep the lines of communication open.
Thanks for all your videos and advice.
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
You have followed everything i have said and look what has happened! It just goes to show you anything is possible if you have the right understand, apply the right actions, and keep working on getting the out come you want!
As of right now relieve all pressure by giving her the space and time she wants.
Your on what i call S.E.C/Stacking Emotional Climaxes which will be fully explained in my product “The Attraction Emotion Solution”
What you need to do know is limit verbal communication to 2-3 times a week and no longer then 5-15 minute conversations. Then once a week you need to “Stack A Emotional Date” this means you need to come up with 3 dates within one day and spend 5-8hrs with her on that day. By the end of the day she will be thinking about commitment! …and if she brings it up then you act off it when its already her idea
You do not bring up commitment or talk about it but if she does then go with the flow. The only reason why she did not say yes
to you when you asked is because it was not her idea to commit yet, it is but it is not her idea that it will fully work yet.
So do 2-3 of these dates that i am talking about to continually forum the idea in her mind that she will no longer have to worry about hurting you again based off of the time you are spending together.
As for as Building Boundaries, yes. You can talk a little bit about who she is dating and the two of you to show that you are interested in what she is talking about …but its extremely important that you do not let that turn into a conversation, unless its a progressive conversation that has to do about commitment
Keep your head up and remember this saying….
In life, you some times you have to travel through the desert to get to the palace
And this one…
“its the small success that lead to the big success” “If you do not acknowledge the small successes you will become frustrated and give up. If you do acknowledge the small success you will become motivated and step it up!”
I’m sooo glad i found your website info has been a big help and so has your emails.
Hey Thomas
I’d like to thank you sooooo much! I was honestly starting to give up. I then I met YOU! You won’t believe how much you’ve helped me:)
Wow! Keep up the great work
Jamie
Dear Thomas!
I can not thank you enough! I got my man back, after following your program. I made some mistakes during my struggle, but I managed to make him love me even more, an we communicate better than before!
Thank you sooooooo much!
My very best
Lise
Hey Thomas,
You have been such an amazing help by letting me get over my ex and showing me how to get her back. I am still not back with her yet, but I’m in a way better point in this whole situation than I would have been if it weren’t for you.
Thank you so much Thomas!
Thomas is a total beast. Thanks for leading me in the right direction, hope to stay in touch
Great advice Thomas. When Saving a Relationship the advice about the initial acceptance is an absolute gem.
Thomas you are a relationship Ninja Master my friend. Awesome advice!
Wow Thomas, you’ve clearly helped SO MANY people discover TW Jackson’s amazing guide. I came across it some time ago and am definitely of the opinion that anyone with relationship problems of any kind should read this eBook, it really can change your life!
Brilliant work brother!
Dear Thomas
Your guide has really helped me in so many ways. I was so heartbroken when my ex left, and never thought I could get thru a day without him. But with your advice and help, I have managed to get into the right ‘head space’ and have the energy and vibe to know firstly how to look after Number 1 (me!) and secondly how to make forward plans to get him back. And a strange thing started happening – on making the plans I found that there was a bigger world out there just waiting for me.
thanks so much thomas, Ive moved on and look and feel all the better for it!
Hey Thomas! Thank you so much for all the wonderful advice. I feel way more confident about how i should go about getting over the breakup and getting back with my ex (if i happen to see getting back together as the best thing for both of us, or fair for both of us). Every video has left me feeling stronger and more sure of myself. I know everything will turn out fine either way and its mostly thanks to you:)!
Thank you so much!
Taylor
Hi Thomas,
Just wanted to say i think your videos and advice are brilliant. Along with the book “The Magic of making Up” and following your advice, i can’t go wrong.
I am meeting my ex tomorrow for our 1st date…. wish me luck!!
And keep up the good work,
Without yours and T Dubz help i would have made all the mistakes possible and and ruined any chance i had of reconciling with my ex, now i know i have a good chance of us getting back together.
You are a saviour
Thank you so much
Heh Thomas – this is brilliant advice – but where the heck did you learn all this? the magic of making up is a great book but you also have lots of wonderful advice
Hi. I like your videos on youtube, very helpfull ty. The Magic Of Making up is a great book.
I want to know if your book is a hardcover or only a downlodable book. I want to know if I can buy it and actually get the physical copy in the mail?
I hope to hear back form you soon TY.
Monica
Hi Thomas,
but ever since iv`e been taking your advice i must admit that i feel much better the hurt is not so much any more. my body feels good and my emotions are in tact. sure i will need some help soon to know what to do when my no-contact phase is up!! but your advice has been great so far and i know that i will receive even better advice soon….thank-you man you have helped me and i hope that i will be with the one i love soon again…
well its been hard, i am now in the third week of no contact and i hear she is seeing someone else. but i am sticking to the plan and the magic of making up, i am doing exercises every morning and even growing a beard, the ladies at work say it looks nice
your the best
Clive
Greta advice from this website it really works. The book of the magic of making up is really interesting and it’s advice on how to get your ex back is really great. Including the parts on how to move on I’d it does not happen you will not feel alone.
before i subscribed to you i was near the edge of complete insanity and almost gave up n happyness alltogether. thank you for helping me through this hard time, your advice really works!
hello.. i dont know u personally but i have to thank u for helping me out.. jst watching ur videos n reading ur mails have made me feel abit better.. i havent goten my x back yet n still have lots questions up on my head. i thought i wuldnt any1 to help me but i found u n really wana contact u becuase i think ur the only1 tht can help me out..
Solid advice all around, not just for dating, but for life. Keep up the great work Thomas, it’s awesome to see such wisdom reach so many people. Should be required reading for all adults when they mature and come of age
Thomas,
Sincerest thanks to you and your videos and emails — they are definitely helpful so far as it has helped me recover from the initial pangs of heartbreak and the knowledge you share is truth that has helped settle my panicked mind. Not only do they help with relationships and heartbreak, but the social aspect of life as well. I plan on sharing and recommending your advice to others and assuring them that this is no scam of any sort.
Thank you very much! May good things come upon you
The advice on this website has literally changed my life! My ex moved out 3 weeks ago and is now living 2,000 miles away. I thought our situation was hopeless because now he’s so far from me, I thought there was nothing I could do to win him back. At first I had a hard time following through with the advice on this site, but I’ve stuck to the plan wholeheartedly this past week and already I am seeing a difference and have not even got The Magic Of Making Up yet. I just checked my call history and I have 5 missed calls from my ex in the past 2 hours alone! It’s great to know that I have the power to turn things around and restore my ex’s feelings for me. I’m feeling happier in myself, my ex is starting to express interest again, and I finally feel in control of the situation. I have no doubt that we will be reunited soon- distance or no distance. Thomas, you are incredible! Thank you for being the light at the end of the tunnel.
Hey, thank you for your advice. I started with no contact and my ex initiate the contact for the 1st time after I initiate twice after we broke up. Well,I have no idea on why he suddenly took the initiative to talk to me. But I won’t read into it,maybe he is just bored or something else. Anyway,thank you for your emails and The Magic Of Making Up that kept me going strong after the break up. Everyday,I will make sure that I changed something about myself. Thank you for helping me to stand up on my feet again.